It can be challenging for a child to pack and unpack every time when moving between their two homes. Not only can this make them feel like they are living out of a suitcase, but they may also not have a sense of belonging in either home.
Co-parents should keep items their child needs at both homes to provide stability, comfort, and a sense of belonging. Here are five such items:
Clothing
You should have a sufficient wardrobe for your child in the two homes. It should include daily clothing, underwear, socks, pajamas, school clothes//uniforms, swimwear, seasonal clothes and footwear.
Toiletries
Ensure your child has a toothbrush, toothpaste, hair care items, skincare products and personal care products. They don’t need to pack a toothbrush, shampoo or lotion every time they move.
Toys and games
Some toys can move between the two homes without difficulties, such as a doll or a small card game. However, it helps to duplicate certain toys, such as trucks, trains, board games and art supplies.
School supplies
Of course, your child needs to move with certain school supplies, such as their homework, school-issued electronics, projects and specialized items like music instruments. However, some items can be available in both homes, including stationery, notebooks, athletic gear, calculators and basic art supplies.
Electronics
Your child should have access to electronics in both homes. For instance, a smartphone for communication and a laptop/tablet for schoolwork. Make sure chargers are present at the two homes and screen time rules apply consistently.
Your child can move around with their favorite items or things that can’t be duplicated. Otherwise, they should have anything they need at both homes. Get more information about other ways you and your co-parent can reduce struggles, increasing the chances of successful co-parenting.